| 1: liberation |
- independent, dynamic, self-aware, exuberant, and serene
- inner stability and peace of mind
- fully empowered, in union with self and universe
- let go of forced peace and self-image
- let go of belief that their participation is unimportant.
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| 2: psychological capacity |
- peaceful, humble, gentle, and steadfast
- “i am a peaceful, easygoing person”
- emphasize own peace, stability, harmony, and gentleness
- reject passions, strong emotions, assertion
- basic fear: loss of connection
- basic desire: having inner stability and peace.
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| 3: social value |
- relate to others primarily through supporting and mediating
- feel that they are good when everyone around them is getting along
- desire: create and maintain peace and harmony in their environment
- strategy: reinforce self-image through supporting, reconciling, and comforting others.
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| wake-up call |
accomodating myself to others, always saying "yes" |
| 4: imbalance (social role) |
- tend to withdraw into imagination to heighten sense of peace
- avoidant of conflicts and self-assertion
- agreeable, self-effacing, “whatever is fine”
- take on social role of nobody special
- modest and not wanting to inconvenience anyone.
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| 5: interpersonal control |
- manipulate others by “tuning out” the pressure to change
- slothfullness (shadow) arises when they resist change and fail to develop individuality
- insists on being seen as peaceful and easygoing
- desire to maintain status quo.
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| 6: overcompensation |
- dismissive and indifferent
- wishful thinking, stubborn, resistant (peace at any cost)
- desire to minimize problems
- undermine others by making them feel that they’ve lost connection with the 9.
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| red flag fear |
reality will force me to deal with my problems |
| 7: violation |
- accommodation has turned into being exploited
- resist dealing with reality or change
- incapable of acting and neglectful of responsibilities
- desire to defend the illusion that everything is ok
- violate self-image of nobody special through neglect of self and others.
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