| 1: liberation |
- compassionate, empowering, and gentle
- in sync with Universal Will and no longer forceful
- surrendering and letting reality unfold
- let go of forced power and self-image
- let go of belief that they must be in control.
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| 2: psychological capacity |
- strong, self-reliant, master of own fate, independent
- “i am a strong, assertive person”
- emphasize their strength, assertion, resourcefulness, and independence
- reject their vulnerability (emotional needs)
- basic fear: being harmed or controlled by others
- basic desire: protecting themselves and determining their own course in life.
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| 3: social value |
- relate to others primarily through leading, decisiveness, and creating opportunity or providing
- see themselves as a good person when they are strong and in control
- desire: to prove their power and strength through action or achievement
- strategy: reinforce self-image through leadership and extending control.
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| wake-up call |
feeling like i must push and struggle to make things happen |
| 4: imbalance (social role) |
- tend to see themselves as completely self-sufficient
- risk-taking, pragmatic, competitive
- desire to acquire the resources they need to maintain power
- social role of the rock/leader
- protector who takes charge.
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| 5: interpersonal control |
- manipulate others by domination and insistence on compliance
- lust (shadow) arises when they want to possess, control, and increase intensity of experience
- insist on being seen as strong, assertive, and powerful
- desire to feel important to self and others.
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| 6: overcompensation |
- threaten and intimidate
- defiant, pushy, bullying and belligerent (test of will and power)
- desire to have others obey
- undermine security and safety of others through threats of harm.
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| red flag fear |
others are turning against me and will retaliate |
| 7: violation |
- feel rejected and betrayed by the world
- brutal, violent, and treacherous (as only ways of surviving)
- trust nothing but themselves
- desire to survive and protect self at all costs
- violate self-image of being the rock through ruthless treatment of others.
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