| 1: liberation |
- fully appreciate and internalize depth of their experience
- grateful and connected to present
- let go of forced joy and self-image
- let go of belief that they require something particular to be fulfilled.
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| 2: psychological capacity |
- enthusiastic, excitable, spontaneous, reframing
- “i am a happy, enthusiastic person”
- emphasize enthusiasm, energy, spontaneity, optimism
- reject gratitude for fullness of current experience and what they have
- basic fear: being deprived and trapped in pain
- basic desire: to be happy, free, and fulfilled.
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| 3: social value |
- relate to others primarily through being prolific, realistic, and versatile (life is a banquet)
- feel that they are good when they see themselves positively and get what they want
- desire: to do the things that will ensure that i get what i need
- strategy: reinforce and demonstrate self-image through trying new strategies.
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| wake-up call |
feeling that something better is available elsewhere |
| 4: imbalance (social role) |
- tend to feel that something better is available elsewhere
- occupied, pleasure-oriented, trendy, acquisitive
- desire to increase sources of stimulation and joy
- social role of the energizer
- wanting to bring joy and lightness to environment.
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| 5: interpersonal control |
- manipulate others by distracting them and demanding that their needs be met
- gluttony (shadow) arises when they are greedy for more things and experiences
- insist on being seen as happy and enthusiastic
- desire to stay constantly excited and stimulated.
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| 6: overcompensation |
- easily feel trapped or deprived, flighty and unreliable
- insensitive, impatient, selfish, dissatisfied
- desire for instant gratification
- undermine others by depriving them of experiences.
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| red flag fear |
my activities are bringing me pain and making me feel trapped |
| 7: violation |
- uninhibited, seeking constant thrill or stimulation
- impulsiveness borders on the juvenile, acting out whatever whim comes to mind
- desire to avoid pain or anxiety at any cost
- violate self-image of being energizer through callousness with others.
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