levels of maturing for type 4

inspired creator
1: liberation
  • profoundly creative, expressing personal and universal, able to transform experience into something meaningful
  • let go of forced uniqueness and self-image
  • let go of belief that there is something amiss about them.
self-aware intuitive
2: psychological capacity
  • sensitive, introspective, need for authenticity
  • “i am an intuitive, sensitive person”
  • emphasize sensitivity, uniqueness, self-awareness, and emotional honesty
  • reject things in common with others (for instance, ordinariness)
  • basic fear: having no personal identity or significance
  • basic desire: to have significant and meaningful identity, based on inner experience.
self-revealing individual
3: social value
  • relate to others primarily through being inventive, exploratory, and creative
  • feel that they are good if they remain authentic and true to self
  • desire: to express their individuality to themselves and others
  • strategy: reinforce self-image through creativity and self-expression.
wake-up call holding onto and intensifying feelings through imagination
imaginative aesthete
4: imbalance (social role)
  • tend to withdraw into imagination to heighten and intensify feeling
  • individualistic and dramatic
  • want to cultivate and prolong selected feelings
  • take on role of special one
self-absorbed romantic
5: interpersonal control
  • manipulate others by being temperamental and hyper-sensitive, forcing sensitivity
  • envy (shadow) arises when the happiness or success of others is observed
  • insist on being seen as sensitive and unique
  • desire to have their identity nurtured and supported
self-indulgent "exception"
6: overcompensation
  • decadent and self-pitying
  • believe their uniqueness or suffering entitles them to be exempt of rules
  • desire freedom to be utterly themselves
  • undermine others by treating them as if they had no value or personal significance
red flag fear i'm ruining my life and wasting opportunities
alienated depressive
7: violation
  • self-pity turns to shame
  • life is so disappointing that it needs to be defended against
  • fatigued and apathetic, they become bitter and resentful
  • desire to reject anyone who does not support their emotional demands
  • violate self-image of the special one through hatred

adapted from Riso & Hudson: Wisdom of the Enneagram