levels of maturing for type 4
1: liberation |
- profoundly creative, expressing personal and universal, able to transform experience into something
meaningful
- let go of forced uniqueness and self-image
- let go of belief that there is something amiss about them.
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2: psychological capacity |
- sensitive, introspective, need for authenticity
- “i am an intuitive, sensitive person”
- emphasize sensitivity, uniqueness, self-awareness, and emotional honesty
- reject things in common with others (for instance, ordinariness)
- basic fear: having no personal identity or significance
- basic desire: to have significant and meaningful identity, based on inner experience.
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3: social value |
- relate to others primarily through being inventive, exploratory, and creative
- feel that they are good if they remain authentic and true to self
- desire: to express their individuality to themselves and others
- strategy: reinforce self-image through creativity and self-expression.
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wake-up call |
holding onto and intensifying feelings through imagination |
4: imbalance (social role) |
- tend to withdraw into imagination to heighten and intensify feeling
- individualistic and dramatic
- want to cultivate and prolong selected feelings
- take on role of special one
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5: interpersonal control |
- manipulate others by being temperamental and hyper-sensitive, forcing sensitivity
- envy (shadow) arises when the happiness or success of others is observed
- insist on being seen as sensitive and unique
- desire to have their identity nurtured and supported
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6: overcompensation |
- decadent and self-pitying
- believe their uniqueness or suffering entitles them to be exempt of rules
- desire freedom to be utterly themselves
- undermine others by treating them as if they had no value or personal significance
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red flag fear |
i'm ruining my life and wasting opportunities |
7: violation |
- self-pity turns to shame
- life is so disappointing that it needs to be defended against
- fatigued and apathetic, they become bitter and resentful
- desire to reject anyone who does not support their emotional demands
- violate self-image of the special one through hatred
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adapted from Riso & Hudson: Wisdom of the Enneagram