integration for type 9
wing 8 integration
type nines long for harmony and comfort, fearing any form of conflict or mental upset. this can result in the immature type nine leaning towards isolation and self-soothing, failing to recognize that this behavior actually makes them more vulnerable. immature type nines also easily give in to their typical defense of narcotization. through the integration of their type eight wing, the type nine develops much more of a “take charge” orientation. they become “solid” and can be more decisive, whilst still taking into account the views of others. they can now contribute to their teams or families with greater ability to make decisions and assert their view. in the process of maturing, they become more self-confident and influential.
wing 1 integration
the immature type nine is unable to stick to schedules, which creates pressure. they would rather withdraw into what is comfortable and known, failing to recognize that this self-defeating behavior will not allow them to adjust to reality and grow. through the integration of their type one wing, the type nine becomes more attentive, punctual, and precise. while type nines generally diffuse their attention, the type one wing brings greater mental acuity and discernment. the more mature type nine becomes more structured, principled, and focused. they also display a greater willingness to follow through in action.
release point
integrating mature type 3 qualities
type nines are often neglectful in self-awareness and growth. they regard themselves as dull and unimportant, not realizing that others may not see them that way. the mature type three, on the other hand, is deeply self-aware and willing to develop themselves. as they mature into the integration of their type three release point, the type nine takes on these qualities. they become more engaged in their own life. although they may never have the drive of type three, they do realize that they have a contribution to make in the world, and they wake up to their actual life and become more active. like the mature type three, they are now goal focused, and can work within timelines with a result-oriented attitude.
stress point
overcoming immature type 6 qualities
when type nines are stressed, they take on the qualities of the immature type six, developing a great deal of anxiety and unhealthy thinking. whereas the type nine is typically more laid back and unaware, they now have a sense of powerlessness, helplessness, and despair. their typical reaction is to withdraw and shut down. it takes a great deal of maturing for the type nine to overcome these negativities, and present more like the mature type six. when they reach this point of maturity, their deepened insight and deliberation are observable. at the same time, they’ve increased their capacity for verbal expression, and become strong contributors to their environment.
non-resourceful state
when type nines are under stress, they are more resigned, more shut down, and more asleep. they avoid responsibility and self-awareness even more, without recognizing the self-defeating behavior. they put off doing what needs to be done, engaging themselves with inconsequential activities, daydreaming, or sleeping. if that doesn’t work, they may become obsessive and compulsive about the work they’re doing. they may become overly responsible, dutiful, scrupulous, fearful, ruminative, and worrying. they doubt themselves and seek affirmation from outside authorities.
resourceful state
when type nines are in a resourceful or relaxed state, they focus and differentiate instead of distracting themselves or merging with those around them. they stay awake and are aware. the type nine is now prompt and acts decisively. they don’t put off until tomorrow what they can do today. their opinions are expressed, and they can verbalize their feelings and needs. in this state they see themselves as successful and competent. they believe they do matter and their actions in the world make a difference. they unblock their feelings and let their own energy flow into action instead of living off of others’ energy. they assume an active stance, allowing their love to be expressed in their action. “i am, therefore i matter” replaces “i don’t matter, so what’s the big deal?”
recommendations for type 9
- it is worth examining your type’s tendency to go along with others or doing what they want to keep the peace and be nice. will constantly acquiescing to the wishes of others provide the kind of relationships that will really satisfy you? remember, it is impossible to love others if you are not truly present to them. this means that you have to be yourself, that you (paradoxically) have to be your own person so that you can really be there for others when they need you.
- exert yourself. discipline yourself to pay attention to what is going on and develop your capacity for attention. don’t drift off, tune people out, or daydream. work on focusing your attention to become an active participant in the world around you. what is needed by those around you? what is needed in the environment? try to become more curious and engaged.
- recognize that you also have aggressions, anxieties, and other feelings that you must deal with. negative feelings and impulses are a part of you, and they affect you emotionally and physically, whether or not you acknowledge it. furthermore, your negative emotions are often perceivable, and get in the way of the peace and harmony you desire in your relationships. it is best to get things out in the open first, at least by allowing yourself to become aware of your feelings, and then to talk about them.
- type nines can be so caught in their “i don’t matter” narrative that they are unaware of the impact of their non-participation. examining troubled relationships is hard for them, but can lead to deep self-awareness and insight. the feelings you have for others endow you with much of your identity and self-esteem. and if you really love others, you can do no less than examine the role you have played in conflicts with them. type nines are often surprised to realize that their fear of conflict can actually cause conflict. learn to sacrifice peace of mind in the moment to gain long-term satisfaction and peace of mind.
- exercise frequently to become more aware of your body and emotions. regular exercise is a healthy form of self-discipline and will increase your awareness of your feelings and sensations. developing body-awareness will help to teach you to concentrate and focus your attention in other areas of your life as well. exercise is also a good way to get in touch with and express some aggression.
summarized from Riso & Hudson, Lapid-Bogda